One need not go far to find one of the picturesque villages
that sun themselves atop so many of Provence’s hills. Views of their clumped-together,
ancient, warm-colored stone homes and the church bell tower that usually rises from
their midst make it easy to imagine the idyllic life that’s lived along these
villages’ quaint and very old streets.
For the past two-weeks, I’ve been house-sitting for friends
who live just below one of these gorgeous gathering places. I’ve walked through
Ventabren village a couple times before this but never alone and never with
real time for wandering.
But I’ve now done both. And it’s been one of the treats of
this house-sit to climb the stone-cobbled
chemin
up to the city during a couple recent twilights and listen to sounds of
dinnerware clinking and pleasant conversation as I wind my way through the
close-set homes. I found myself wondering--and even assuming that it must clearly be so--whether life on this hilltop is as convivial as seems possible. Surely,
everyone knows their neighbors—the several hundred others perched there
together—and it’s one big happy French family. Right?
Well, sometimes
assumptions don’t hold up.
Today I managed to rouse my night-owl self early enough to
attend the village church’s 9 a.m. Wednesday morning Mass. It’s August, which
is high vacation season here in France and a time when many things shut down,
so I wasn’t 100 percent certain the doors would really be open. On Sundays the
services rotate between this church in Ventabren and those in a couple other
nearby villages.
But the doors didn’t disappoint, and I slipped onto a bench
a few rows behind the three other women who composed the morning’s
congregation.
When it was time to “pass the peace,” it was nice to see real
warmth in their eyes as they greeted me, the interloper in their village
community.
My other goal for the morning was to visit the village
bar/café, but it wasn’t open yet, so I climbed up to the very top of the hill
to enjoy some reverie and prayer with a cicada choir for accompaniment while I
regarded the quiet, green valley below.
Then as I descended, I exchanged bonjours with an older man
who was also descending into the village. We enjoyed a friendly chat as we
walked down the stone stairs past the ruins of the 12th-century
chateau of Queen Jeanne that put Ventabren officially on the map back in the
day. The man was born and raised in Ventabren, though not in the village itself,
and has always
lived in this corner of the world. Despite never moving away, renewing
his passport is one of the tasks on his to-do list, since it expires soon. As
we passed the former school turned present-day library, he noted that this is
where he spent his elementary school days and pointed out the spot where a wall
used to separate the back courtyard—pre-dating his school-time era—to provide
one courtyard for girls and one for boys. There was a day when the genders
didn’t mix at school here.
We parted ways, and I arrived at the tiny café. Its four round tables stretch across the small front terrace. Inside there’s a typical wood-paneled
bar and some walls of shelves filled with beer. I learned that the area marked
“private” to the right of the bar wasn’t seating for private functions as I
first assumed. It’s the proprietor’s kitchen.
Throughout a pleasant hour and a half, I was busy. I gazed
at things. I read. I took obligatory Instagram photos. I exchanged bits of
pleasant conversation with other customers. It was all quite friendly. Just
like village life should be. Right?
But the most interesting part of the day came while I chatted
with the owner and finally got to ask all of my burning village-life questions.
And here’s what I learned. Sometimes assumptions don’t hold up.
Mr. Proprietor has lived in Ventabren for 30 years. Before
that, he was from nearby Aix-en-Provence, for the first 25 years of his life.
In addition to running his café/bar, he does some odd jobs for the town hall,
which include providing transportation for elderly folks to a weekly meal at
the school (during the school year) and delivering official documents to offices
in Aix.
His café is only open during the summer – in part because
there’s no space inside for tables and the terrace isn’t so pleasant in the
cold, but also because most of his visitors, like all the other customers I
talked with, are tourists, not locals. So he’s open during tourist season.
His café and one restaurant are the only businesses in the
village. These survive, he says, partly
because they aren’t dependent on the
locals to keep them going. But the village bakery, a staple of any French
community, shut down 20 years ago.
And here Mr. Proprietor explained that there are three
things needed to support a thriving local business culture in a village...and to
support all those idyllic images of relaxed, sun-baked community life:
- The village needs at least 1000 inhabitants.
Ventabren village (the commune includes more than just the village, so
“Ventabren” officially has a larger population than just the village’s numbers)
only has 400-500.
- The village needs a central plaza where the
community can regularly gather. Ventabren doesn’t really have this. Apparently,
twice a year village residents enjoy a potluck together, but that’s the real
extent of the neighborliness. So much for all those idyllic images. Half the
village is composed of renters who rotate regularly, so this affects village
life. He said people are neighbors but not really friends.
- The village needs not to be too close to other
larger towns and cities with all their amenities. Ventabren, for example, is a
20-minute drive from Aix and 30-45 minutes from Marseille, with the region’s
largest commercial districts lying between Ventabren and Marseille.
Thus, as a result of all these things, Ventabren is
something of a really pretty dormitory. People go out during the day to their
jobs and other activities and come back at night to sleep in their very old
stone homes. And that’s as good as village life gets sometimes. If you want the
quiet and want to keep to yourself, then maybe this still sounds like idyllic
village life to you. For others of us with busy imaginations and dreams of
community hugfests (or bises-fests,
as it would be here), it might be good to remember that Ventabren—and other
Provençal villages like it—looks good on Instagram but might not be your best
French dream after all.
My conversation with Mr. Proprietor was interrupted by the
arrival of a French girl from Aix with her French guests, an older couple from
Paris. Eventually they started posing many of the same questions as I did about
village life. It’s not only we
Americans who are curious about the daily goings-on in the villages of Provence.